Yoga and criticism

Okay this is weird, I'm being critical of critics! Something wrong with that.

I was talking with my best friend and training partner about how criticism is such a part of gym culture. It seems to be the way that people, especially guys, show intimacy.

If you are around me, you know I subscribe to the helpful belief that people are usually doing the best they can with the knowledge and awareness that they have at the moment. Thank you Louise Hay. I also ascribe to the belief that in asana, there is no such thing as a perfect pose. Thank you Bryan Kest.

I try not to leave room in my yoga practice and classes for criticism. Work hard, stay focused on your breath, and do the best you can. If you are in a class that makes you feel bad or increases your self-criticism, get out. Never let yoga be an opportunity to reinforce your ability to criticize yourself. Trust me, you've got that skill down and it doesn't need further practice. How about using your practice to flood love and approval to every part of your body. Everyone needs love and and approval, why not give it to yourself?

So the same day we were talking about gym culture and criticism, I had an instructor point out with critical surprise that I couldn't do Gomukhasana fully and I was a yoga teacher. There are many poses I can't do and the list is probably longer than the ones I can do. I tell people that if I could already do this stuff I wouldn't need to practice.

The same day I ran into a guy whose girlfriend went to my class and loved it BUT couldn't believe that I talked all the way through the class. This was the compliment with criticism topping. I told myself to accept the compliment. By the way, I do talk a lot.

Please catch yourself criticizing yourself and stop. Catch yourself criticizing someone else and stop that too. I don't think we have to worry about not having enough criticism in the world around us. Increasing the love and approval that is out there is worth it.

Namaste,

Dean

Open up!

"Lift up your heart." That statement is part of the Christian Mass and it is excellent advice. Most yogis have heard someone talk about having a headlight on your chest. You want to keep it shining forward not down at your lap. Go ahead and feel long and open especially under your sternum. Give yourself room to breathe and your heart to open. Collapsing in on yourself is hard on your body and your psyche.

I've found that lifting my heart is a simple practice but very powerful. Do it while you are sitting, standing, and especially while you are practicing yoga.

The Heart Chakra is called Anahata and is the home of our decision maker. It is also associated with love and compassion. Lifting the heart opens this area and also Manipura, the navel chakra. Manipurna is the center of our self and the discipline to get things done. Open the front of your body, fill it with breath and face the world with confidence and love.

Namaste,

Dean

WVC Class Starts Tonight

We're starting a new quarter at WVC tonight. It is 5:30 pm for Power and the Back/Gentler Class is at 6:45. There is still time to show up and still time to register even if you can't make it tonight. This class relies mostly on word-of-mouth, so please tell your friends about it. Go to www.wvc.edu and hit Continuing Education.

Tonight's class will not be in the Campus Theater. The Drama department needs the stage just for tonight. Our class will be in Van Tassell in the conference room right across from the Cafeteria. It is a great room with windows. The rest of the classes should be back in the Campus Theater.

I did a bunch of Chatturangas earlier today so my triceps are talking to me. Telling them, "Thanks for sharing," isn't quite getting them to stop complaining. Speaking of talking to your body, try just for a day to talk to your body with encouragement and love. Tell it how great it is. Tell it how much you love it, even if you don't. Everyone does better with encouragement and praise. How about you give it to your body and see what happens? One day---how easy is that?

I hope to see some of you tonight out at WVC!

Namaste,

Dean